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Writer's pictureShel Dammann

Stressed or Blessed? Holiday Strategies for Weight Loss and Maintenance

Updated: Nov 22



The holidays have a magical way of sneaking up on us, don’t they?

While I’m not hosting Thanksgiving this year, I know how easy it is for the season’s food and festivities to take center stage. If you’re like me back in the day, you might be planning to lose weight or at least maintain it during the holidays—but without the right strategies, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or lose focus.


Let’s change that narrative. Here are some **holiday strategies** to help you stay on track while embracing the spirit of the season.


Mental Assignment: Envision the Best Version of You

Start by asking yourself: Who do I want to be at the holiday table?

- Do you want to show up calm, collected, and present—or frazzled and stressed?

- What stories or past experiences are you carrying that might be shaping how you feel about the holidays?


Take some time to mentally rehearse how you’ll respond to challenges:

- That relative who critiques your cooking? Practice offering them grace and kindness.

- A tough conversation with a family member? Imagine diffusing the tension with humor or changing the subject gracefully.


Emotional Assignment: Create the Feelings You Desire

Feelings don’t just happen; they’re created by your thoughts and actions.

- Focus on what you love about your family. Recite their best qualities in your mind. Share them with others.

- Let go of perfectionism. It’s okay to simplify the menu or try something nontraditional—like a taco bar or supporting a local baker for desserts.

- Practice gratitude daily. Whether it’s a spilled drink or an overcooked dish, gratitude helps you laugh and move forward.


Practical Tips for Holiday Eating Success


1. Slow Down and Savor

- Chew slowly, put your fork down between bites, and enjoy the flavors.

- Sit at the table, engage in conversation, and resist the urge to eat mindlessly.


2. Share the Love (and the Calories)

- Share meals and desserts with your spouse or family members. Order one dessert for the table to share.

- Embrace the concept of tasting instead of devouring. A bite or two can often be enough to satisfy.


3. Set a Time Limit on Treats

- Enjoy leftovers or holiday treats for a day or two—then toss or donate the rest.


4. Don’t Overcommit Your Plate or Your Time

- Simplify your menu and delegate. Let others bring a dish, and feel free to say no to extra responsibilities.


5. Adjust Your Goals

- Instead of aiming to lose weight, focus on maintenance. A balanced mindset can reduce stress and help you stay mindful.


Final Thoughts: Stressed or Blessed?

The holidays are about connection, love, and gratitude—not about the “perfect” meal or the number on the scale. When you shift your mindset, you create space for joy, laughter, and peace.


So, how will you prepare yourself this year? Let’s leave stress behind and embrace the blessings!



What strategies have worked for you during the holidays? I’d love to hear your tips! Share them in the comments or send me a message—I’m here to help! 😊

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